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December 10, 2020 by admin Leave a Comment

I started my blog…and then I stopped my blog…

I’ve wanted to have this blog for a very long time, and just when I finally had it up and running, it ended. I ask myself why, and I really don’t have one good answer.  I guess there are lots of cumulative reasons that lead to it going on the back burner. 

First I’d say, it’s 2020. This year has been a real shit show for most people. I try to keep what I write clean…but there’s no other description that fits 2020 other then shit show. I know I’m not alone when I say this year has been a struggle.

My first symptoms started on March 16th, I had various active symptoms for the next 6/7 weeks. It was sometime during that timeframe that we finally admitted to ourselves that we were actually suffering from Covid (both my husband and myself), as I was initially in denial. But we had all the classic symptoms. No other virus out there before, would you have suffered with a fever for 16 days straight! Following that, I had post viral fatigue until mid-July when I finally pushed through. Finally, at the end of November, I was also diagnosed with post viral infection as I’ve been dealing with swollen glands and lymph nodes in my neck and elevated blood pressure ever since my initial Covid infection. I’m working hard to flush my body of that now. Praying I’ll get there soon!

No, Covid did not affect work and our business directly, and for that we are so grateful. But yes, it affected work and our business indirectly, which has made for a very challenging year. 

Not to mention all the stressful political division and unrest that’s happened in our country this year.  Never thought I’d live to see the day!  It’s just shameful that people can’t even have civil discussions about this anymore. That’s all I have to say on that.

I’ve lost 6 relatives this year, and 3 family friends, a total of 9 people! Amazingly, not one of them was from Covid, however Covid definitely affected how they were all put to their final rest, very sadly some of them couldn’t even have a funeral. 

My in-laws health took a drastic decline during this past year. My father in-law had a massive stroke in August, at first we weren’t sure he’d survive it. He did, thankfully. But unfortunately, he has complete paralysis on his left side that he’s had little recovery from. We desperately tried to keep him from having to go to the nursing home, but sadly that was the end result. We haven’t been able to see him in person except through his window since September. He was the main caregiver for my mother in-law who’s health started declining just prior to. He was taking care of so much, that we did not realize how bad things had become for her, until we had to take over for Dad. It’s a difficult thing to watch your husband and his siblings try to navigate these unchartered issues that they were not prepared for. 

Although we missed celebrating most of our birthdays and Easter this year (I was really looking forward to mine, because it had that rare occasion of actually falling on Easter Sunday) because they all happened during the timeframe that we were actually sick with Covid, we did get to celebrate some other wonderful occasions though. We celebrated the July 4th holiday weekend and our daughter’s engagement. We also celebrated our Granddaughter’s first birthday on Halloween. What a joy it’s been watching her grow this year! We certainly do love her so much and we can’t hardly remember what it was like to not have her in our world!

Our lives are still crazy busy. We’re helping our daughter plan her wedding for next year. Helping them get some projects done at their new house. Trying to keep our business afloat. I have so many personal projects and goals I’ve set for myself to start working on, one of them being this blog. 

One big lesson from this year. Try to live and enjoy the every day moments…be present in the moments! Try harder to shut off the distractions. Be grateful for the moments. These moments are your life, don’t wait for the future to celebrate your moments. 

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My 2020 Garden

May 18, 2020 by admin 21 Comments

Gardening has been ingrained in me since I was 6 years old. That’s when my parents moved from town out to their dream house they had built on 2 acres just outside of town. Both my parents grew up on farms and gardening was a way of life for them. It wasn’t long after we moved in, that my Dad started tilling up a very large spot for the garden at the back of the yard. One of our most unpleasant and tedious first garden chores (I really don’t think I actually spent too much time at it) was picking rocks out of the space, I hated it. Then he had a truckload of manure (eww…I was confused about that, at the time) delivered and he tilled that it.  My Dad was always trying to teach us something, either about hard work or about living off the land.  I don’t know that I always paid attention, but I think some of it must have stuck.  I remember a moment I had with my Dad in the garden like it was yesterday, and he often brought it up for years because I guess he thought it was funny.  I absolutely could not figure WHY he was putting that old nasty, shriveled and sprouting potato into the ground and burying it. When I asked him about it, I don’t recall him answering me at that point, I believe I ended up seeing the results. I do remember him making the rows and showing us how and where to follow along and dropping the seeds in. I also remember how he showed us that you could pop open the pea pod and eat the raw peas right there in the garden, yum! My Dad grew the vegetables, and my Mom canned them (that was more chores)…us kids helped with both parts, and the canning part is for a later post! 

I didn’t grow my own garden until the year 2000 when I was 34 years old. I unexpectedly lost my father in January of that year. That spring I was seriously compelled to grow my own vegetables, it was a need I had so deep, my husband didn’t question it. He built for me my first raised bed. It was rectangular about 4×6 and only about 4 inches high. But I made it work. As I was digging in that ground and setting those seeds, I was literally watering them at the same time with my tears. Everything I planted that year grew beautifully. Planting that garden and watching it grow was so therapeutic and healing for me. How I wanted so desperately to call him on the phone and tell him all about it. I did that for a few years, until I got busy with work and raising a busy teenager, and it sadly fell by the wayside. 

Then about 6 years ago, I felt the need to garden again. This time we went full on square foot gardening. My husband built me these 6, 4×4 beautiful raised garden beds with trellises attached onto the back. We filled them with garden dirt and compost. It’s crazy how many plants you can pack into these boxes! 

A couple of weeks ago, we prepared the beds by turning over the dirt with a tiller and amending the soil with manure. This year’s list of chosen vegetables: sweet peas, green beans, cucumbers, tomatoes, jalapeño peppers, carrots, beets, sweet potatoes, potatoes, butternut squash, zucchini, and a few herbs.  I direct sow the seeds for almost everything except for the tomatoes and peppers, as our growing season is a tad short here in the Mitten state.  I have started my tomatoes and peppers from seed myself indoors in the past, but it gets tiring having seed trays take over your dining room table for 2 months, so now I just get the plants from my local greenhouse.  I’m also trying sweet potatoes this year for the first time, so fingers crossed that goes well. I’m putting my potatoes in potato sacks for growing this year for the first time, I’ll make another post about that, I’m excited to see how that’s going to work. 

Direct sowing my sweet pea seeds! One square foot space can fit 8 pea plants.
Transplanting my tomato plants. One tomato plant per 1 square foot space.

To transplant your tomato plants, one plant goes per one square foot. I dig my hole just a bit larger then the root ball. The black plant containers, are usually very easy to rip open with your fingers, I find this is the easiest way to get the plant out without disturbing the root ball too much. I do, however, loosen the roots up with my fingers before planting. Stand the plant up straight in your hole and pack your dirt firmly up against it so it stands upright on its own. We will eventually add support to all these plants with tomato cages.

Last step, water gently to moisten every box. Water every day, and watch for it to grow!

Completed! Doesn’t look like much yet, but it will soon!

To be continued…

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